In Cub Scout packs, Akela is a symbol of wisdom, authority, and leadership. Akela is anyone who acts as a leader to the Scout. Akela can be a Cubmaster, Den Leader, parent, or teacher depending on where the guidance takes place. In den meetings, it is the Den Leader who is Akela. During pack meetings, it is the Cubmaster. At home, the parents fill this role.
Cub Scouting encourages closeness to family. The program will give you opportunities to take part in activities with your child that you normally couldn’t do. It provides a positive way for parent and Scout to grow closer together, and encourages you to spend quality time together. In this way, Cub Scouting is a program for the entire family, and your involvement is vital to the program’s success.
A few specific things you can do to help your Scout in Cub Scouting
- Work with your Scout on projects
- Help your Cub Scout along the advancement trail
- Participate in monthly pack meetings
- Attend parent-leader conferences
- Go on family campouts with your Scout
- Provide support for your Scout’s den and pack
The Cub Scout years are developing years for Scouts, falling between the dependence of early childhood and the relative independence of early adolescence. As they grow, your Scout will gain the ability to do more things “on their own,” but at this stage of their development, your help is critical.
Work with your Scout on projects
Scouts often start projects at den meetings and finish them at home with the help of a parent. Such projects become the catalyst for parents and Scouts—often joined by siblings and friends—to interact with each other in an informal, relaxed way.
Because the purpose of projects is to teach a Scout new skills, a project will challenge a Scout to do tasks that they haven’t yet mastered. It’s not uncommon, therefore, for a Scout to need help from their family to do some of their projects. In Cub Scouting, Scouts are not expected to do things entirely on their own. So long as a Scout does their best to do as much as they’re capable of, it’s perfectly acceptable for a parent or sibling to help the Scout with the tasks their unable to do on their own.
Help your Scout along the advancement trail
The advancement plan is designed for parents to use to create a learning environment in their home. With the Cub Scout handbooks as a resource, parents and Scouts work together to do the achievements required for each badge. The advancement plan provides fun for the kids, gives them a sense of personal achievement as they earn badges, and strengthens family understanding as adult family members work with Scouts on advancement projects.
While Cub Scouts will learn skills and begin work on projects in their regular den meetings, the parent remains at the center of the advancement program. As each task is done or each skill is demonstrated, the parent records its completion. And when the Scout has completed all the requirements to earn an award, the parent presents that award at the next monthly pack meeting.
Participate in monthly pack meetings
The regular den meetings are for Cub Scouts and their adult leader. The pack meeting is for the entire family of every Cub Scout. At pack meetings, parents see their child in action with their friends, meet other parents, and join with neighbors in caring and sharing. These types of opportunities are scarce, and pack meetings highlight how Cub Scouting teaches Scouts cooperation and collaboration.
The pack meeting is also a monthly showcase for all that the Scouts have worked on in their den meetings. Craft projects are on display, skills are demonstrated, and skits are performed to show the kids’ command of the monthly theme. While kids at this age seem to be struggling toward independence, having the approval of their parents and other adults whom they admire remains important to them—so your presence at these meetings is critical to underscore the importance of the lessons your child has learned.
Attend parent-leader conferences
Held at various times throughout the year, parent-leader conferences provide opportunities for you to discuss your childs’s participation and expectations of den and pack meetings. Such conferences can help your child get the most from their Cub Scouting experience, and they give you the chance to communicate with pack leaders, to share knowledge and gain the awareness needed to work as a team to help your child succeed.
Go on family campouts with your Scout
Besides being fun, family camping is a chance for quality time together and an enriched family life. This program is a recreational opportunity—it’s not on a tight time schedule. Family leadership rests with the adult member(s). This leadership might be yielded from time to time as the family chooses to take part in activities, such as swimming, where specific camp policies must be followed for safety and proper operation.
Provide support for your child’s den and pack
It’s important to remember that the adult leaders of your childs’s den and pack are volunteers who give their own time to provide a quality program for your kid. While they have been carefully selected and extensively trained for their roles, there are always times when they could use help from parents in the pack.
Pack events such as the pinewood derby, blue and gold banquet, or field days take a lot of effort—more than the monthly meetings. The pack’s leaders would likely welcome any help you can give. Likewise, den leaders will be grateful to parents who can lend a hand with field trips and outings. By pitching in as needed, you can show your son the importance of helping others. So be on the lookout for opportunities for you to help the den, the pack, and its leaders.